A while back I posted a blog entited "ARE WOMEN WHORES FOR MONEY"{http://xcapadesofthegirlz.blogspot.com/2007/06/are-women-whores-for-money.html} ...I have to ask this question and just put it out there...is it okay for women to marry for money?

I look at the BravoTV series of the Real Housewives of OC, NYC, and most recently ATL and I listen to this young 25yo woman say "at first when I met my husband I was not physically attracted to him, but then I realized he was sweet and very successful..… Continue

You know...if there is one thing that I hope gets fixed not just in the Obama adminitration's, but just in general and that is the Welfare System in America. I say that because I don't believe that everyone on welfare really needs it...to be quite frank, I feel that the majority of them are working the system, because its easier than getting a job...hell, busting out baby-after-baby is a job...one that most of them can ill afford to have...

The parent's ( I will use that term lightly ) are used… Continue

What causes individuals to explore celibacy? Is it something that only women will do, or are more men also practicing this as well? Why the word celibacy is looked upon as THE C and for some is being likened to cancer? Is there something wrong with a person that foregoes something as fun, exciting, and enjoyable as sex? I used to think so, until I decided to shut the shop down.

I practiced celibacy from 2005 to 2007 and it was due in large part to being tired of the game. Trust me when I say th… Continue

So your gut instinct was right...you found out he cheated, so now what do you do?

Many of your friends will tell you to leave him, but the majority of women will not leave after the first time they find out that their mate has cheated. To be honest, the majority of women stay, rather its for love or lifestyle, they very rarely leave.

I know so many so-called married folks that on the surface appear to be happy and beneath they are both cheating neither getting what it is they want from the oth… Continue

Why is it when a man says he is looking to settle down, he is viewed as being tired of the game? Yet when a woman says she is ready to settle down because of the same reasoning, she is now viewed as being desperate or in a rush to marry.

Why is it that women are expected to forgive a cheating/philandering husband, yet a man is not expected to forgive a cheating/philandering wife?

Why is it an expectation that a woman will stand by her man regardless of his misdeed?

Why is it that single men w… Continue